and I guide men who are struggling in their relationships and feel disconnected from their power to regulate their emotions, lead with confidence, and communicate with clarity—so they can experience deeper love, unshakable trust, and feel proud of the man they’ve become.
Who am I?
Why did I (Andrew) Create This?
“You are more capable than you realize, borrow someone's belief in you, until you have it in yourself”
― Andrew Ybarra
I created The Destined King because I needed help, I needed someone by my side to help me remember how powerful I actually am. I was in so much pain and so unsure of how to access my true power. I'm doing this because men need these tools, they are hurting and they feel alone and I know I can help.
Most of my life I never knew I was on autopilot, I was just trying to survive the next thing. Unconsciously, I was in so much avoidance and pain, that I needed to spend most of my time numbing the pain I felt within. This included substance abuse, hiding, distracting myself with work, video games, porn, and anything that would help ease the pain from feeling like I would never be enough. This is what I imagine most people describe as chronic depression and anxiety.
I then chose that this was not the life I wanted, and made the decision many times to learn tools, and hire mentors to support me and my soul. I found my inner courage to dive deep into myself, invest in my own growth, and say enough of this, and say yes to myself.
I now use the deep presence I've cultivated over 14 years of personal development, the powerful somatic tools I've studied, and my experience facilitating dozens of men, to now support men who know they are meant for more and ready to up-level their lives.
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Self Responsibility
Own what is yours, this allows you to take your power back and to not see yourself as a victim. Also to NOT take responsibility for what is not yours to carry.
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Being Sovereign
Being sovereign means you have choice, you see yourself as a King and own your desires and needs through your voice and actions.
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Health
Health is the key to embodying the King. Not only physical, but also spiritual, emotional, and mental.
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JOY
We are evolved animals flying around on a giant rock through space, gotta remember to have some FUN and enjoy this human experience!
Our mission is to call men forward into who they were meant to be, to empower them with tools to navigate their lives with power, passion and purpose, so that they can shine their light and lead themselves, their families, and their communities with honor and courage.
We give men the tools to create safety in the body, so that they can fully feel their emotions without getting triggered, holding it in, or blowing up. This allows men to live from their souls' truth and live a life of more joy, abundance, fulfillment, and love.
And so it is, aho!
